Relationship: The glove that fits best!
January 29th 2007 03:01
Relationships-the eye-opener? What are the different type of relationships and what goes on within. One. The Dependant. The man: seemingly in control, capable and able whilst emotionally out of control, insecure and condescending. Women: Sweet but intense, unnerving tactility, need for reassurance, volatile, explosive. Both parties: out of control, efforts made for comfort ability, a safety net is created! Do we have a choice? Are we destined to be in a particular type of relationship? Two. Co-dependant. Separate lives, detached emotionally, minimal emotional connection, respect although conditional on expectations and achievements. Is this really what relationships have to be about? Three. The Needy. Once the partner is won over and the pair are settled, there will be inconsistent & erratic behaviour, little self-control or consideration for the other, tactile whilst being self-absorbed. Four. The role model. Soulful, balanced, adult grown up interaction, take responsibility for personal actions whilst remaining emotionally connected. We all try to be good people and people that lead good lives. My prayers are for good fortune, a clean break and clarity!!
Why do so few people achieve # Four? Is it dependant on the maturity of the women? Is this the aspect us women should be working on? Are relationships meant to be hard? Finding a balance is hard. You have to take responsibility for yourself. Have unfailing self-discipline. Achieve healthy amounts of emotional detachment. Open up to experiences which educate you in feelings. Commit. And choose the ‘right’ one to be in the fox hole with - the glove that fits best!!
Why do so few people achieve # Four? Is it dependant on the maturity of the women? Is this the aspect us women should be working on? Are relationships meant to be hard? Finding a balance is hard. You have to take responsibility for yourself. Have unfailing self-discipline. Achieve healthy amounts of emotional detachment. Open up to experiences which educate you in feelings. Commit. And choose the ‘right’ one to be in the fox hole with - the glove that fits best!!
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