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Who is More Important: the Cat or the Human?

December 17th 2008 21:00


Viewers of Desperate Housewives would know a couple of months ago there was an episode where a family is sheltering in their neighbour’s basement as a tornado is coming. Also there is Ida, their neighbour’s friend, and her cat Toby. So far so good. So what’s the problem?

The problem is the father of the family, Tom, is allergic to cats. So his wife Lynette asks the neighbour, Karen, if she would move the cat elsewhere. Karen won’t budge as Ida was there first. Ida is also her friend while Lynette and Tom are simply her neighbours. Lynette later tries to smuggle the cat out of the basement but is caught out by Karen. The two engage in a cat-versus-human debate. The front door then flies open and Toby runs out and hides under a car. Karen tries to retrieve the cat only to see how close the tornado is. Only then does she let Lynette persuade her to go back inside. The two end up sheltering under a mattress in Lynette’s bath tub.


Given my misanthropic tendencies, I’m with Karen on this one. Tom can always go shelter in another neighbour’s basement but poor Toby would probably be terrified from being separated from his owner. Toby is probably terrified enough anyway, being put into his cage and being moved to unfamiliar surroundings. I also thought it was admirable how she tried to retrieve Toby from the car. I think I would have done the same thing myself.

For those who missed it, the crucial bits are 0.45min and 8.38min into the below clip:



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Comment by Kleonaptra

December 17th 2008 23:34
People like that dont want to be around me in a disaster situation. A domestic animal needs far more care than a wild one or a human as it doesnt have the instincts to deal with the issue and save itself. Cat allergies affect humans incredibly mildly - at the worst I have seen hives, but mostly its a small effect on a persons eyes or sinus', like a hayfever reaction. Most people are irritated by dust, this allergy is different in all people, and its quite rare to actually be 'allergic' to the cat itself. Most people have their hayfever triggered by the dust collected in the cats fur - theyre like a magnet for dust with their really soft fur - and say 'im allergic to cats' because they dont really like them anyway. Because a cats fur is almost magnetic, catching on clothes and sticking to skin, the dust allergy is more pronounced than in other animals, but generally dust is the problem, not the cat at all. Even I have a dust allergy, and yes, the cats trigger my hayfever. So do the horses. I get on with it.

I have a severe allergic reaction to cattle. Their fur causes painful red and white hives on my skin and a really severe hayfever reaction. I cant even eat beef as it gives me food poisoning. Still, I would not deny a terrified cow a spot in my bomb shelter, Id work out a way to keep all animals happy!

Comment by RubySoho

December 18th 2008 00:12
I am allergic to my flatmate's cat. I had a major reaction three months ago. Fever, congestion etc. I was in bed for two weeks. Then my ears got infected. Three months later and I have Eustachian Tube Dysfunction. Both my ears are blocked, i can't equalize ear pressure and i never want to leave my room. I made my flatmate remove the cat for a week and my symptoms are starting to clear up but she is bringing her back today and refuses to consider my predicament. I am moving out in three weeks but until then I have to continue to live in misery because of this damn cat.

I'm sorry but fuck the cat. The cat and my flatmate can both go to hell. Anyone who thinks cat allergies are mild should try living my life for the past three months.

Comment by Queenie

December 18th 2008 00:47
Hi Kleonaptra and Ruby,

I'm obviously not allergic to cats so I'll have to take both your words for this.

Ruby, it's terrible your flatmate treats you like this. Good on you for moving out. You shouldn't have to put up with being sick every day.

Comment by RubySoho

December 18th 2008 01:14
Hey thanks. Sorry for the angry rant but it's funny that you posted this just when the situation was coming to a head in my life. Haha. Actually my flatmate said similar things to Kleo above ie "it's not my cat you are allergic to and you are just making it up because you hate my cat".

Well it's true that I do hate the cat now. But I didn't until it made me sick. It's also incredibly insulting and frustrating to be accuse of lying when you have been suffering for three months.

Oh and it is actually the cat that people are allergic to. Or more specifically cat dander which is found in cat sweat and saliva. The cat licks itself, the dander spreads to the fur, the cat sheds its hair, the hair attaches itself to the floor, the walls, the furniture etc and wala, you have some very sick humans on your hands.

Hey I can understand that some people love their pets more than anything. But considering that the lease for this house is in my name and I have lived here for four years while the cat has only been here for three months, not to mention the fact that I pay rent and the cat doesn't, well then I think the human should come first at least in this instance.

Hey, I feel better now after getting it off my chest. Thanks for the post!

Comment by Queenie

December 18th 2008 01:45
Hi Ruby

Thanks for sharing your story with me. Although I will probably always put an animal first, I also respect your awful situation and it's terrible you should have to move when it's your lease anyway. Your flatmate sounds really inconsiderate.

At least you will have a quality life in your new place.

Comment by Kleonaptra

December 18th 2008 05:55
I was very careful to allow for people like you - suffering a true allergy to the animal - in my comment, Ruby. But its not the cats fault. In a disaster situation I would say everyone is suffering, and its not fair for the cat to die just because someone doesnt want to be in the shelter with it for maybe an hour. Confined to its box, it wouldnt be able to spread its fur around causing rampant allergy reactions anyway.

I know how bad it feels not being able to equalize your ears and suffering constant acute sinus pain. Im not denying it sucks. The real question is, if you've been in the flat so long, why cant you kick the room mate and her cat out? Whether you understand it or not, some people do put their animals above the comfort of humans.

Comment by Tracy

December 18th 2008 06:43
Hmm, I don't know...it's a really hard question.

Comment by RubySoho

December 18th 2008 13:36
Hi Kleo, oh I understand what you meant, I was just letting out the anger I have internalised for so long, obviously not really directed at you. I pretty much just projected my resentment for my flatmate onto you which is unfair so I am sorry for that. I do agree that in situations where the animals safety is at risk then it is unfair to disregard them. But I do think that in everyday situations some pet owners, such as my flatmate, place an undue burden on other people. She didn't tell me her cat was strictly an indoor cat until after she moved in. i have a very small house and suddenly after four years of having all doors and windows open I had to keep them all shut. if the cat got out, i got yelled at. if I locked the cat in her bedroom so it wouldn't get out, i got yelled at. I have smelly cat litter in the bathroom. The cat jumps on my kitchen table and sheds hair in my food. She has ruined my clothes, my blankets and scratched my favourite pieces of furniture. I know it's not the cat's fault but boy am i pissed off at her owner. And all she has to say to me is "that's part of living with a cat". But why should I suffer for a cat that isn't even mine especially when I was not even warned about how high maintenace the cat is?

Anyway, I didn't kick her out because I am planning on moving back to Sydney in Feb anyway and i couldn't be bothered doing the whole advertising for a flatmate thing again so I just decided i would go stay with a friend for a few weeks until I leave Melbourne. I'm pretty bummed. I love this house and I love the area I live in and would have liked to stay until the end. But oh well, c'est la vie.

Plus it's kinda hard to tell someone to to leave when they have barely finished packing. In hindsight i should have told her right away even though it would have upset her. But I've learned my lesson. Never again.

Comment by Queenie

December 18th 2008 20:49
So true, Ruby. I had so many problems with my flatmates and in the end, I decided it's best to live on your own or with people you know very well. I have never looked back!

Comment by Kleonaptra

December 18th 2008 23:03
Thanks for that Ruby, This -

I know it's not the cat's fault but boy am i pissed off at her owner.

Is all I ask for from people who dont 'get' the animal thing. I cant take it when the animals are blamed for their behaviour because its always the humans fault. I admit completely Im not the most responsable sometimes, but Im on my own property! In that situation I would happily allow the cat to be in my bedroom for most of the day I wouldnt let the whole household suffer for the litter. When I only had one cat her box was in my room. I dont get the window thing - we have windows open and our cats dont get out. I do go mental over someone letting them outside though, Ive lost too many over the years. And a cat can easily be taught kitchen benches are a no go - its up to the owner to set the boundaries though.

Im glad youve got a plan at least, and now you know to be tough - some people cant be told. Sorry you had to deal with a person with no sensitivity.

Comment by Canadiangurl420

February 1st 2009 00:05
Any animal would go back to primal intcists if there was a natural or ma made disater......for example in new orleans in the USA when hurricain Katrina hit dogs made packs and started hunting and so would cats...i once had a cat that was only and indoor animal and we moved to the country and he went outside and would dissaper for days and he would fend for himself and then ome home for a lil while ....so i think that the human would be more impotant then the cat..because he would have found a safe place to hide outside where as if he got away indoors he could have died..

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